Vulnerability: open to moral attack, criticism, temptationOur Guard-- we let it down when we feel safe and the conversations are easy; we raise it high when we feel threatened.
It's life's greatest defensive tool to guard us against unwanted predators who may bully, belittle, condescend, or patronize us.
It's also our greatest offensive tool to build trust necessary for strong, positive relationships in the context of a safe, open space.
Self-confidence is the great leveler that enables us to gain judgment on what is the right level of vulnerability. Judgment improves only when we stop being afraid to invite others in to get to know us. It’s also confidence--not egocentrism—that will reduce an unhealthy need to snare relationships with neediness and sympathy.
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